This is the blog I did a while back about my friend Arno Michaelis. This new video interview at the bottom of this blog with Arno Michaelis is eye-opening, to say the least. It is certainly very educational. Learn about this courageous person. I believe it will inspire you and give you hope. People can and do leave hate groups, neo-Nazism, and White supremacy groups and go on to become wonderful citizens. He describes what it was like to be so full of hate:
“The bottom line is that living like that, where you hate every other human being on earth and you’re terrified of them every moment waking moment of your life, it’s exhausting. It’s a miserable way to live. I was exhausted from day one of my involvement in hate groups. That exhaustion built over seven years until I was looking for an excuse to leave. Nothing drove the exhaustion more than when people I claimed to hate treated me with kindness.”
NEW BOOK: THE GIFT OF OUR WOUNDS
Arno just published his second book with Pardeep Singh Kaleka and Robin Gaby Fisher. The two have a non-profit called Serve 2 Unite. The latest book is called The Gift of our Wounds: A Sikh and a Former White Supremacist Find Forgiveness After Hate. It’s about his story intertwined with Pardeep’s story, a first generation immigrant from Punjab, India. Pardeep’s father, Satwant Singh Kaleka was the head of the Sikh Temple in Wisconsin. The hate crime that took Pardeep’s father’s life on August 5th, 2012, along with five other people, was committed by a guy from the gang that Arno helped to start back in the late ’80s when he was a neo-Nazi skinhead.
“When white supremacist Wade Michael Page murdered six people and wounded four in a Sikh Temple in Wisconsin in 2012, Pardeep Kaleka was devastated. The temple leader, now dead, was his father. His family, who had immigrated to the U.S. from India when Pardeep was young, had done everything right. Why was this happening to him? Meanwhile, Arno Michaelis, a former skinhead and founder of one of the largest racist skinhead organizations in the world, had spent years of his life committing terrible acts in the name of white power. When he heard about the attack, waves of guilt washing over him, he knew he had to take action and fight against the very crimes he used to commit.”
As Arno discusses in our interview, it is important to guide conversations through personal experience. Listen. Show compassion and above all, be kind and a friend. If we do this, we can combat the violence and help to change the current hateful climate in our nation.
Trump and Violent Extremism
Since President Trump has taken office, there has been a constant wave of violence, hatred, and extremism engulfing our country according to the Southern Poverty Law Center. Yale forensic psychiatrist Brandy Lee has made a case for the dangerousness of Donald Trump. His past patterns of violence, along with personality traits predisposing to violence, raised alarms for thousands of mental health professionals from around the world, who together formed the World Mental Health Coalition.
Trump’s xenophobic rhetoric has “gone beyond the political world and injected itself into everyday life — and, in many instances across dozens of states, in very violent ways.” This map shows documented instances where President-elect Donald Trump, his supporters, or his staff have harassed or attacked Latinos, immigrants, Muslim-American, African-Americans, and other minority and marginalized groups.
On October 27, 2018, eleven innocent Jews were killed by a hateful man that shot up the Tree of Life Synagogue in Pittsburgh, PA. Many of his followers use the Nazi salute to show support for Trump. After the election, a video surfaced showing white nationalists marking Trump’s win with the Nazi salute. Richard Spencer, an alt-right leader, has publically supported and praised Trump.
I am reading a highly researched and respected book, Network Propaganda: Manipulation, Disinformation, and Radicalization in American Politics. While it is a $99 book, there is a free online edition provided by Oxford University Press, once you create a free log in. This book analyzes the last few years of online and mainline media propaganda. Russia plays the main significant role according to their research. The authors discuss how stories are generated and by whom and how these stories were repeated and amplified, often through Breitbart, Fox News and to other media, largely with the help of the tweets of the President. It is important to say that Donald Trump has at times issued statements condemning hate and violence. That is good, but he has also retweeted and issued many messages seen as dog whistles to hate groups, including White Nationalists, conspiracy theory believers, QAnon, climate instability deniers, and others who either promote hate, or deny science and rule of law, the importance of a free and vigorous press, and checks and balances that are demanded for a healthy American society.
Authoritarians who are narcissists want to have people thinking about them. They wish to capture people’s attention so that they can manipulate people. What they fear is that people will not pay attention to them. What they fear is that people will not think them important.
What we want to do is promote ex-members who can talk about how lousy it is to be part of this and be role models for being a person of conscience and love. Former members of extremist groups who have taken the time to educate themselves and heal themselves are our greatest asset to combat mind controllers worldwide.
About the Author:
Steven Hassan M.Ed. LMHC, NCC has helped thousands of individuals and families recover from undue influence (mind control). With over 40 years of experience, he is sought after as one of the foremost authorities on undue influence and controlling groups and individuals. Steve understands the subject from a unique perspective as both a former cult member and as a clinical professional. Steven Hassan has published 4 books about cults. His first book, which came out in 1988 under the title Combatting Cult Mind Control, was updated and re-released in 2015 as Combating Cult Mind Control. Chapter 2, My life in the Unification Church has been placed for free on this web site. This book is available as an audiobook as well as on kindle.
Steven is the Founding Director of the Freedom of Mind Resource Center, a coaching, consulting, and training organization dedicated to supporting individuals to have the freedom to think clearly and to freely consider how they want to live their lives. Steven pioneered a breakthrough method called the Strategic Interactive Approach (SIA), an effective and legal alternative for families to help cult members. The SIA teaches family and friends how to strategically influence the individual involved in the cult.
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